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« Reply #960 on: September 24, 2010, 04:02:28 pm » |
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I believe it, blaize, and let me tell ya, when they want you back and can't have you because you've moved on to bigger and better things, they want you more and more, and that my friend it the best revenge out there. 
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« Reply #961 on: September 24, 2010, 04:14:05 pm » |
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I guess marriage is a blessing and a curse. If I can ever find a wifey who loves me enough to let me be happy and not compromise and vice versa, I would propose right away. Unfortunately that is only in my dreams. All my lady friends don't play BC2. They only like Wii Sports and Cooking Mama. :[[
my wife and i have our own interest but thats cool. we still do things together usually with the kids but we still get out sometimes. i dont think i could get my wife to even try playing
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« Reply #962 on: September 24, 2010, 04:17:29 pm » |
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Yea i know K. When I was younger in high school I used to be the one with the undying devotion. after getting hurt a million times over, its the other way around. i'll never let a girl walk all over me again. god i was whipped. **** that. i was jamming with my friend's band in her neighborhood gussey's and she was there. after a set she said "how are you where have you been. you're so different". I just lol'd and said hey introduce me to your friend. I ended up chatting her friend up and she pulled me outside for bogeys. she hugged me and cried "you're not paying attention to me you're ignoring me". BIG LOL. She asked for my digits and gave her a number for Domino's Pizza. 
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« Reply #963 on: September 24, 2010, 04:22:08 pm » |
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I don't know how I feel about that. Two wrongs don't make a right. If you cared for her at any point, you wouldn't have acted like that, even if she deserved it. Sorry, that is just my two cents. 
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« Reply #964 on: September 24, 2010, 04:49:09 pm » |
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thanks for two cents. i respect that June. everything is experience. i wasn't trying to pay her back. i've become indifferent to some people including her. If you want to talk to me on the same level, come to my level. I can give back to the community. volunteer . work in a soup kitchen. protest against meat. im am extremely loyal to friends. im reliable but i don't like when people make me a dependence. she was trying to make a last ditch effort for me to cling to her again. i know her all too well. I wasn't being mean to her I was being civil. i gave a giant hug and a kiss when i saw her. I even made jokes about our relationship and she laughed and contributed. and i know if i didnt give any phone number she would make a ridiculous hysterical scene right there. i'm serious about it. She's very immature. there was no ill wishedfull satisfaction of seeing her. I only laugh because im at a very different point in my life than i used to be. I can only laugh at my own experience. For me karma rules what happens to people because of their deeds. i don't bring about that.
I just want to say all my life i never fully appreciated my life. i never learned to love myself. I was always the guy who did everything for everyone and make things happier at my cost. I rather have everyone happy than me.
I never had the intention of seeing her. Is there a little part of me that cares about her. OF course. I pray for the people who are in my life and were a part of my life and wished them well. i've learned to let things go and that has allowed me not to regret my experience/learning. I still fully appreciate her because without her I would not be the person I am today or even be alive. At the same time I love myself and accept me for who i am.
I apologize if it came out sounding mean.
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« Reply #965 on: September 24, 2010, 05:06:10 pm » |
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I guess I cannot fully understand your situation, but I think in all relationships cordiality is as low as you should go. Thanks for better explaining. 
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« Reply #966 on: September 24, 2010, 05:17:46 pm » |
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alright thanks for trying to understand.  i wrote a personal motto on my wall last year. It's better to (try to) understand and be misunderstood than it is to be understood and not (try to) understand. I rather someone misunderstand me and let me understand theirs than for me to be understood and try not to understand their situation. I try applying this everything in my life. It works you don't get offended/mad at a lot of things anymore.
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« Reply #967 on: September 24, 2010, 05:33:10 pm » |
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Amen to that brutha. Think you did the right thing (in not humoring her when she approached you). Those are the moments that are the true test to see who you are inside. Some people say that God puts people in your life to bless you, and I believe that, but I also believe that satan sends people into your life to try and lure you away from happiness. Its what you do in those situations that define you, and I believe you did the right thing because for all you know, it could have drug you down into a deep hole that's hard to get out of. 
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« Reply #968 on: September 24, 2010, 05:46:38 pm » |
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I'm just going to apologize to WU for making the thread go off course.  K I lol'd before because I knew if this was 2 years ago and the the exact same situation happened. I would be under her grasp again. It has happened. I would leave for 6 months and grow a little and one night she comes to my room and I'm back under her. I really wanted to make our relationship work out but we only deteriorated as people (Sucked into hard drugs/alcohol/partying). Maybe maybe one day when we're both at our best persons and no obstacles can we get back together and marry maybe. But not likely.
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« Reply #969 on: September 24, 2010, 08:15:16 pm » |
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I think it would be a dealbreaker if he didn't own one prior to marriage.  Exactly! 
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« Reply #970 on: September 24, 2010, 08:24:49 pm » |
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Blaise, you seem like a good guy just trying to find the right path. Good for you for getting yourself out of those bad situations. Kind of like K said, sometimes certain people are put into your life for a reason, and you just need to learn from it. 
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« Reply #971 on: September 24, 2010, 11:16:16 pm » |
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gg's tonight ladies and gentlemen, i'll try to get back online later if I'm not too tired. gonna watch the first episode of The Office on Hulu and try to get some booty  putitinherrbutt - we were already squaded up when you sent that invite and the server was full. i'll try to catch ya later if your still on coolhand - saw you in there before I left but we were already full. i told them to invite ya when I left. catch ya later if I get back on Valerie - quit being such a snob to that poor hazelblue chick. you're so mean. I am so offended right now it's not even funny
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« Reply #972 on: September 24, 2010, 11:19:33 pm » |
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lol shut the hell up. That goes on my list of favorite hatemail. Don't think I've ever received one from a girl. 
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« Reply #973 on: September 24, 2010, 11:24:52 pm » |
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GG's doodz and gals. Val-(grrrr) 
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« Reply #974 on: September 24, 2010, 11:25:59 pm » |
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Rawr.
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