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« on: May 02, 2012, 04:02:31 pm » |
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What the hell is up with this mindset?
I'm talking about the idea that, essentially, society's views on beauty are corrupt and evil and oppressive and that true beauty is being at peace with your body type, be that whatever it may.
Now that's fine on its own (to an extent; I disagree with the first assertion, but whatever). Where I have a problem is when "And you should love me/love my body/find me attractive!" is added to that sentiment.
I'm skinny. I'm not Auschwitz skinny, but I could stand to gain some weight. Most girls that I'm around are interested in muscular guys (thank you Southern stereotypes). Do I wish they all got wet over skinny dudes with glasses and Converse? Hell yeah. Am I going to go around expecting everyone to find me attractive, or getting upset if they don't and cite the reason for that as me being "too skinny" for their liking? No.
It seems that people with the first mindset I mentioned are simply angry that people aren't into them. I'm sorry, but fat = unattractive to me. It is literally the biggest turnoff imaginable. And I'm not talking about "curvy" or whatever the proper word is for girls these days; I'm talking about 240+ at 5'6". And society isn't the one telling me that necessarily -- biology likely has just as much to do with it, as I doubt your cholesterol-laden arteries would be up for giving birth to and raising a child if it means you have to be more active than the effort it takes to walk from your bed to the toilet, and instincts basically tell me that.
I suppose I just can't understand how people think that they have some sort of entitlement when it comes to being found attractive, and then spin that around into blaming people who don't find them attractive because of their morbid obesity for oppressing them or making them feel worthless. I honestly don't understand it.
Some explain this to me immediately. Or share a related story or something. I don't care.
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« Reply #1 on: May 02, 2012, 04:14:51 pm » |
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Yeah, I've told some fatties how I really felt in my day, but so what. There's always someone elses out there that will accept them.  Also, back in my middle school and early HS years I wasn't accepted by most girls cause I wore glasses, was a bit husky, nerdy, and wore clothes that weren't brand named, but jun & senior year I got hella secksified and uber kewel and had the girls that rejected me up on the nutz, but I played hard to get. It was the ultimate revenge. Am I happy with myself looking back? Not entirely, but I do think its a voctory for all unpopular kids an would appreciate a high five. 
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« Reply #2 on: May 02, 2012, 04:15:45 pm » |
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You can't tell me you don't want some of this: 
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« Reply #3 on: May 02, 2012, 04:21:44 pm » |
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would appreciate a high five.  ^5 You can't tell me you don't want some of this:  I've seen specimens that make Precious look like a baby manatee in comparison.
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"And I also told the students that, for the sake of humanity's future, I hoped they were all sterile." - Ignatius Reilly. Never mind what your daughter is taught in school; what she remembers is what she has learned from you. Anti-Noob Fortress of Veteraness Council Member ~Turboweasle~ I NEVER squeeze my jubblies, so that stuff wouldn't work for me.
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« Reply #4 on: May 02, 2012, 04:32:00 pm » |
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Some girls who are a little chubby can be sexy, but chicks the size of that black chick (see above) are just not attractive at all.
That's just me telling the truth. It doesn't mean I won't respect them as a person, because I will. But, damn... being overweight (or underweight) is not attractive, and physicality is the FIRST thing people are attracted to.
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 between the 3 of them or how ever many where there one of them could of got the gun and pointed it at him and told him to gtfo. Its that simple he would of left no one raped murdered lives saved so on and so forth daugher be eating her captain crunch the next morning
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« Reply #5 on: May 02, 2012, 04:45:00 pm » |
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Yeah, I think everyone has an ideal weight to look for in a spouse. I don't really like 'em skinny or big, but I do tend to find larger girls more attractive than skinny ones. (Not saying I like fatties)
In the end though, I take what I get.
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« Reply #6 on: May 02, 2012, 04:55:20 pm » |
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Yeah, I feel I like the same type of girls as Jabba. I can deal with a girl who's a little on the fat side as long as it's not OBESE, and as long as she's got an a ss, fat girl with no a ss is a no-no. Race is not relevant to me, by the way. I don't really like girls to be too skinny because I like curves. My standards are being progressively lowered with age, though.
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« Reply #7 on: May 02, 2012, 05:16:38 pm » |
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I would really want a bunch of fat girls with me if I was in a plane crash and I needed food, eating fat chicks rocks man!
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« Reply #8 on: May 02, 2012, 05:30:04 pm » |
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I think having the mindset that everyone should find you attractive is more of an ego thing than a body type thing. I do feel unrealistic ideals of what is attractive is a problem though.
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« Reply #9 on: May 02, 2012, 05:36:28 pm » |
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Oh, and I find the typical spray-tanned blonde plastic **** look that every girl seems to strive for absolutely repulsive. It's hard for me to even feel anything real for a pretty natural blonde these days. Someone please tell me how this fugly thing is deemed "the most beautiful woman in Hollywood": 
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Be fair.  She was supposed to look odd in Wonderland.
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