Welcome to the site. You sound like a perfect fit around here dude. I lot of us are in the same boat with family and kids and what not. There are still people playing Wii, but most of us play PS3 or 360 now. But, we will play the Wii from time to time.
Most of us old farts frequent the All Seeing Eye board so that's a good place to start lurking besides the game boards you are interested in.
Only rules are don't be a doosh and no pron. Enjoy.

Hit me or any other mod or admin up if you need anything.