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Not at all. Be honest, how often do you look at someone and say: "Wow, I bet they have a great personality, I'd love to date them!" Personally, it's never.
Let's go back 6 years before I met my fiancee. I didn't start talking to her because I thought she might have a wonderful personality, I started talking to her because I found her physically attractive. I didn't find out she had a great personality (at least in my opinion) until later. If I didn't find her attractive, odds are, I never would have talked to her, and vice-versa.
I agree with ddd on this. If you say looks don't matter and being friends and all that other **** comes first thats a lie, people just say that to make themselves not seem shallow. Would you ever date someone that was the funniest person ever and had the greatest personality ever but they where very ugly? No I highly doubt that. You date people because you are attracted to them all of the other stuff is just what makes a relationship last. It isn't what starts a relationship. When i was a fatass i could be best friends with girls they never wanted to date though, didn't matter how nice of a guy a was. Now that im fit etc its like night and day its not even close they even ask me out and so forth. Maybe it shouldn't be this way but this is how it is.
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I agree with RED 100%
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ron knows whats up
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It's not limited to to just friendships or relationships either. If you're giving me a choice between a 40 year old balding dude who hasn't brushed his teeth since Y2K and someone who looks good for a secretarial position, I'm not even considering the dude.
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I don't judge anyone based on their appearance.
This is absurd, of course you do, everyone does. It does not mean you act on it but the judgement is made. This is for just in general though. In terms of relationships, it seems like you're implying that appearance doesn't matter which is also absurd. It does to everyone or there wouldn't be a such thing as physical attraction. That doesn't make you shallow. A lot of women actually say stuff like this, it's not like they don't actually think it but they don't realize what they're actually doing versus what they say they want. I didn't start talking to her because I thought she might have a wonderful personality, I started talking to her because I found her physically attractive.
There is nothing wrong with this. The physical attraction is what gives you incentive to talk to the person. If they're a sh1tty person then it'll turn you off. You might still have a one-night stand with them or use them as a f-buddy but when it comes to a serious relationship, it won't happen unless you really are just that shallow. If you enjoy being around them they will turn you on even more but the physical attraction is what brings you together. It's human nature. Times and places change values of a 10-example when i started basic training and AIT the girls in the female platoon didnt look hot-3 months later not seeing many other girls they looked FINE.
Well yeah, people's bodies change. No one can be a 10 forever. Not even goddesses like Kim Kardashian thanks to Kanye. 
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Name: SuperBadChick Classification: Rogue Primary Combat Style: Ranged Secondary Combat Style: Stealth Bio: The way SBC approaches combat may be seen by some to be cowardly or dishonorable, but in reality SBC deals strictly with what is practical. After all, the best way to not be impaled by a broadsword is to be out of its reach entirely. Instead of meeting her foes head-on, SBC prefers to use a bow and arrows to fell her enemies from a (safe) distance. For those occasions lacking a sufficiently large battlefield, SBC uses her knowledge of the magic arts to cloak herself in shadow and flanks her targets, quietly slitting the throats of the men in the back of enemy lines with her silver dagger. Should the situation become too hostile for a lightly armored warrior such as herself, she will flee from the battlefield and live to fight another day. After all, a dead warrior is no use to anyone. 
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Baw, given the choice between a fat, unattractive friend who I happen to really love and think is a good person, or someone I know very little about but I find perfectly attractive, I think I'm gonna go with the friend.
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Baw, given the choice between a fat, unattractive friend who I happen to really love and think is a good person, or someone I know very little about but I find perfectly attractive, I think I'm gonna go with the friend.
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I don't know about looks... To me there has to be something attractive about them, but i only know it when i see it lol. i think its interesting to point out that all of the people I've liked or had any type of relationship with have been Virgos...
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Name: SuperBadChick Classification: Rogue Primary Combat Style: Ranged Secondary Combat Style: Stealth Bio: The way SBC approaches combat may be seen by some to be cowardly or dishonorable, but in reality SBC deals strictly with what is practical. After all, the best way to not be impaled by a broadsword is to be out of its reach entirely. Instead of meeting her foes head-on, SBC prefers to use a bow and arrows to fell her enemies from a (safe) distance. For those occasions lacking a sufficiently large battlefield, SBC uses her knowledge of the magic arts to cloak herself in shadow and flanks her targets, quietly slitting the throats of the men in the back of enemy lines with her silver dagger. Should the situation become too hostile for a lightly armored warrior such as herself, she will flee from the battlefield and live to fight another day. After all, a dead warrior is no use to anyone. 
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big booty, legs, facial symmetry, no fat chix/10.
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Only reason I thought of this topic is in college there was the question "who would you do for a million dollars?" It was asked about most celeberities, but i didnt have an awnser becuase i didnt like their personalities.
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Baw, given the choice between a fat, unattractive friend who I happen to really love and think is a good person, or someone I know very little about but I find perfectly attractive, I think I'm gonna go with the friend.
That's not the choice. I bet you found the people you've dated attractive. Physical attractiveness is important in a relationship. Sex is important. It's weird to me that you think you can fall in love with someone and not find them attractive. That's some cold ****. Imagine telling you girlfriend "I don't find you physically attractive but its cool I still love you because of who you are." The two go hand in hand. Good personality + good looks. This isn't an either or. You need both.
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Physical attraction =/= love. The former vanishes, the latter remains. I'm pretty sure I could date someone I found physically unattractive. This isn't an either or. You need both.
No. You don't "need" anything. You're a human being, you can make your own choices. If you wanna make a relationship with somebody work, and they want to as well, then you can make it work. I'm adamant on this, so just a heads up but anyone who tries to convince me otherwise is going to fail.
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Physical attractiveness doesn't fade when you love someone.
God forbid if you're in a relationship with a girl who you love but don't find her attractive don't tell her you don't find her attractive. It would probably really upset her/him/whtevr. I don't even know how that's possible unless its an asexual platonic love.
The thought of not being sexually attracted to a girl I love doesn't make sense to me honestly. If anything I think it's quite sad.
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