Wow this is too much. To say that you can't choose who you like because of the environment you were raised in is humorous. When you have sexual urges you can't fight them due to the natural tendencies. But those urges are just sexual. You just want to dip your wing in some sauce. You D0 however choose WHO you are going to give into those tendencies with. I was raised in a fatherless home, but that doesn't mean anything. If I had been raised by uncle jerry and aunt jimmy I still would have found out that babys come from a man and a woman having sex. People hardly ever have sex just to concieve anymore, and that's why people are "preferring" the same sex. Its selfish ambitions that drives them in the begining that leads to feelings of love...sometimes.